Hi David, If I was to agree to my ex-wife's financial request of me taking my name off of the mortgage and giving her the family home and in return her not making a claim on my pension, what would be the best and most cost-effective way for me to go about it? Such as getting her solicitor to have the consent order wrote up for me to sign, or am I missing something and it's not as simby My Future - UK Divorce Forum
Hi David, Just looking at the letter that was sent to her solicitor and the actual wording is that my solicitor stated that she advised me not to apply for the Absolute and not as I originally stated that I'd agreed to not applying for it. My pension pot stands currently at lump sum of approximately £34k and a yearly pension of £13.5k (that is not including my state pension) I would nby My Future - UK Divorce Forum
Hi David, thank you for your fast reply, I will write to them straight away and await their response. I did mention to her solicitor via a letter that I would not apply for the absolute until we'd sorted out the financials, but then later decided not to wait but to go ahead with the application of which you kindly sorted for me. then in the event that they make an application you wiby My Future - UK Divorce Forum
Hi David I'm finally divorced and have had my decree absolute for a few weeks now, thanks to your help. I'm trying to sort my financials and be as amicable as possible, but my ex is now informing me via her solicitor that they are applying to the court for a stay of execution on the Absolute and have asked that I give them my consent to rescind it and if I don't give consentby My Future - UK Divorce Forum
Thank you very much David for our rapid response.by My Future - UK Divorce Forum
Hi All, As I'm petitioning my partner for a divorce on the grounds of five years separation without consent. (I do have the address of where she lives). If she was to not return the acknowledgement of service paperwork, would I then have to get another copy personally served by a court bailiff or could because I don't need her consent, can I carry on with the divorce and apply for thby My Future - UK Divorce Forum
Hi All, I'm just looking over the online form to apply for a divorce and hoped that some one would kindly help me in understanding what a financial order and a consent order are and their differences. Has I understand it a financial order is where the husband and wife cannot decide on how to split things like marital home, money and child care and ask the court to do it for them and aby My Future - UK Divorce Forum
Hi, I split from my wife in May 2015 and moved out of the marital home at that time and into rented accommodation. There are no children living in the marital home and my wife lives there with her new partner. Just over a year later in June 2016 I filed for bankruptcy due to matters regarding my grown up children. I have not spoken or seen my wife since moving out of the marital home, buby My Future - UK Divorce Forum
Thank you David, your reply is greatly appreciatedby My Future - UK Divorce Forum
Hi David, thanks for you prompt reply. We married in 1990 and separated in 2015 and have since lived apart. Hoping to get divorced this year. I'm 56 years old and wife is 50 years old. Children are grown up and have moved out of the marital home. I did pay into a pension before we were married for about 7 years. Only pension I've paid into during our time living togetherby My Future - UK Divorce Forum
Hi, This is first post on this forum after lurking for a while reading lots of information on here and on the home page. I've probably got a million and one questions about the whole process of divorce and the issues around it. So if anyone can help me with any advice it will be greatly appreciated. So firstly with regards to pensions and divorce is my partner allowed to claim against anyby My Future - UK Divorce Forum