Hi so it’s a complicated situation .
I have been with my wife 14 years married 4 ( same sex relationship) we have 3 children between us age 4,6 and 1 year .
The children were all conceived at a fertility clinic with the same anonymous sperm donor and my wife’s eggs.
She carried the first two and I carried the youngest one . We are now in the process of separating but we do not agree on the child care .
It would be my wish that the kids stay together as much as possible.
W disagrees and wants 5/2 and 3/5 alternate split so she has the older two more and I have the baby more . She was the primary carer for the older two and I have been for the baby but we both work flexibility and could easily do a 50/50 or 60/40 split . I appreciate the baby is still little and I’m with him 24/7 stlll , night feeds etc so he may have to be with me more whilst he is so young but I really really don’t want them to be separated from each other .
My solicitor has advised me to stay in the house which to be frank is awful and w constantly threatens to move the older two 300 miles to be closer to her family .
Please could you advise ?
