I'm a 57 year old man, married 15 years to a 47 year old, cohabited 5 years prior to marriage. 3 children - one aged 25, living independently, one aged 19 with an autism diagnosis living at home and not in work or education and one aged 17 at college. I earn £100K gross, my wife works part time for around £22K gross. House is worth around £450K, remaining mortgage of £100K. I have pension sby WitheredAndDied - UK Divorce Forum