Ok, I've been seperated for 20 years, i've never really had a bean to my name, so I couldn't afford a divorce, even though I have not even contacted my wife for about 18 years, I am expecting though a few bob (i'm only talking £5k max), and have suggested to my partner of 20yrs, that i would get a divorce ( she has been living with a legally still married man for 19yrs), anywaby wardogz - UK Divorce Forum