Hi Terry Thanks for the response. I am perplexed because as two intelligent consenting adults surely the court would/should recognize and respect our wishes/decisions ?? Surely whatever the justifications for our decision making lie with us and its the judge's role not to question it but ensure that no coercion from either party has taken place ? I suppose this is just a rhetorical questby Kazjitsu786 - UK Divorce Forum
My ex wife and I are very amicable and just want to get the financial side of things completed. We have submitted a consent order to the court and thought it would be pretty straight forward as the only thing of worth is our pensions which are pretty similar as we are both civil servants. We thought that as neither one of us was interested in going after the other's pension and all financeby Kazjitsu786 - UK Divorce Forum
Thank you Much Appreciatedby Kazjitsu786 - UK Divorce Forum
Hi Terry Thanks for the swift response Your accurate in that we both have civil service pensions. Any agreement we had to complete a consent order was verbal though numerous texts/whatsapp messages exist to back that up, so it's not possible for her to deny ever agreeing to it. From my perspective I see this as an opportunity to sever any financial ties to her and thus prevent her fromby Kazjitsu786 - UK Divorce Forum
Hi Terry I'll try and make this as concise as possible. My ex and I separated in Sept 2017, divorced completed in July of 2021. My ex decided to proceed with a consent order, which I agreed to and agreed to paying half of the cost involved. She later contacted me to say she was no longer going ahead with this as she couldn't afford it. I notified her that I would pay for the costby Kazjitsu786 - UK Divorce Forum