Thank you David, I really appreciate this. The mediator has referred us back to our respective solicitors, and suggested arbitration which I think is the best option. We'll need pension statements for that I believe so the truth will come out! H didn't want to do it, as he thinks he'll be ripped off. I heard a Chris Rock joke on the radio earlier, he says 'you only reallyby daisylou123 - UK Divorce Forum
I should add - H drew up a declaration of trust to state that he was putting £250k when we bought the house, before we were married. My solicitor has suggested that as we married, it was superseded by the matrimonial act. It was not updated when I added my £130kby daisylou123 - UK Divorce Forum
Hello, I'm in process of working out a financial split of assets via a mediator. Husband is 49 I am 46 Married 4 years together 9 H has 2 kids aged 20+ both at Uni, none together (I wanted them he didn't) We share a £720k 4 bed semi-detached house, bought together in 2017. H put in £250k, I sold my 3 bed flat and then used the equity to pay £130k off the mortgage in 2018.by daisylou123 - UK Divorce Forum