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Re: Consent form - 2 years ago

Perfect Thankyou so much again for all your help.

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Consent form - 2 years ago

Good morning Finally we have come to an agreement in the divorce, and we need to do a consent form within 28 days, am I correct in thinking only one party needs to complete this with the other over seeing it and costs to be split? My ex then has 3 months from the date of court to issue the funds in order for this to finally be complete. Thankyou

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Re: Es2 form help - 2 years ago

I have just found something which helps me to understand it a bit more but as my ex is the applicant is it only him who needs to do this form or do I have some input aswell. Thankyou

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Re: Es2 form help - 2 years ago

Thankyou so much I think I now have my head around that part. Regarding the es1 form there are a few yes or no questions which although having googled them I’m just not sure what they actually mean I think I’m so worried about doing it wrong I’m probably making it more complex than it needs to be can you or anyone explain these in very simple terms please Thankyou

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Es2 form help - 2 years ago

Good morning My ex has sent me the es2 form requested by court, he has filled it out for me to the amend. The problem is I just can’t get my head around it ive googled it but still can’t understand it, I would appreciate any help regarding this. Thankyou

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Legal aid - 2 years ago

Good evening I receive legal aid and am due to attend court is 2 weeks, last week legal aid wanted to reassess my claim. My solicitor has just emailed me and said that legal aid have cancelled my discharged my legal aid certificate with immediate effect my housing benefit has gone up by £10 per week and I’ve taken home an extra £21 a week for 6 weeks to cover the day off I have for court (I on

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Pension in divorce - 3 years ago

Good morning I am going through divorce I only started working when I moved out of the family home so my pension only started 4 1/2 years ago I work part time and on a low income so my pension is only at £7k my ex opted out then started his pension and has now cancelled it so he doesn’t have any pension, he is still trying to go after my pension and use this as leverage as to pay me lower in t

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Re: Charted surveyor help - 3 years ago

Are these valuations normally lower than what an estate agent might value the property at? Thankyou

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Charted surveyor help - 3 years ago

Hello I am going to court in January regarding the property, my ex is an estate agent and the valuations he has had done are quite low I think he has got his friends also in the industry to do these lower valuations, the valuation I had done was £30k more my solicitor is now saying about having a surveyor come and do the valuation are these likely to be correct for the market value or will the

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Mortgage help - 3 years ago

Morning, Is there anyway my ex can stop paying the mortgage and it not affect our credit rating? He’s only not paid one month so far but I very much doubt he would do anything to affect his credit rating. He’s already taken out a 6 month mortgage holiday over covid and still works full time also has his current gf is living at the property so that’s 2 wages coming in. I have spoken to the mor

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Agree to settlement or go to court? - 4 years ago

Unsure what to do for the best and feel the solicitors just want this case over with as it is through legal aid. My earnings £10k (part time work) plus get help His earnings £46k (full time work) My rent £1100 per month Mortgage £950 per month he was paying all of this when we were together as I didn’t work, he has been paying this but now refusing threatening the house will be reprocessed

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Re: Not paying mortgage - 4 years ago

I think court is now my only option to getting this sorted. As the mortgage hasn’t been paid I will now have a mark on my credit but surely won’t he aswell even though he paid say his half? He would never pay rent, especially now he has said he won’t be engaging or cooperating anymore. Regarding the courts where would I stand in terms of what I may be awarded, or how is it worked out. I’ve been

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Not paying mortgage - 4 years ago

My ex lives in the family home, I am renting I work part time and receive help, he works full time. He has now only paid half of the mortgage expects me to pay my rent bills etc plus the other half of the mortgage I just cannot afford to do this, the mortgage was due by yesterday and it wasn’t paid so now the mortgage will be in arrears, he has told my solicitor he will no longer be co operating

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Re: Mortgage holiday and contents - 4 years ago

So with my ex taking out the mortgage holiday I need to accept the new mortgage figure and not what it should have been had he not taken it out? My ex was the only one who gained out of this mortgage holiday. Thankyou so much for your help I really do appreciate it.

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Mortgage holiday and contents - 4 years ago

My soon be be took out a mortgage holiday without my knowledge, the banks say this is fine as only one person needs to apply for this. He didn’t need to as he was still in full like employment, so he has pocketed 6months of the mortgage therefore putting my mortgage up as interest was still added but no payments were made. My solicitor is saying I cannot do anything about this and also that the f

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Paying rent and mortgage - 4 years ago

Hello I currently pay rent for the property I am living in, I can only just afford this whilst working and caring for my children etc. My ex lives in the property we own and now wants me to start paying towards the mortgage as we jointly own it, I am trying to get my part of the equity but what he is offering is lower than it’s worth so I have refused, this will more than likely be going to co

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Re: Am I right in my thinking regarding property - 4 years ago

Thankyou for your response I guess it is really difficult then to know what the courts will actually say. I need to enter the property to let estate agents in to value it but my ex is refusing to allow me access, can he do this? I haven’t nor would I ever just enter the property plus I believe locks have been changed. Many thanks

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Am I right in my thinking regarding property - 4 years ago

Hi I moved out of the family home due to abuse. We have the children 50/50 and are married. The property is in both of our names I now work but before I stayed home with the children while he furthered his career. I only work part time and I am now renting so I can’t contribute to the mortgage. My ex pays the mortgage as he is living there. I am going through the process of getting the property

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum

Going to court regarding property - 4 years ago

Hello I’m after some advise if anyone has information on this situation that would be great. I moved out of the family home due to his affair and then abuse, I now rent a property and I now work. I didn’t work before I stayed home and looked after the children for 9 years. The children we have 50/50 which works well and the children are happy with this. I have now been moved out nearly 3

by Stacey - UK Divorce Forum