I'm in a similar situation, I don't want the absolute until the financials and child custody are agreed. Or are they two separate matters, apologies for the naivety. Until my wife agrees on the financial split she is no position to provide a secure future for our sonby BBR1966 - UK Divorce Forum
Wow, our circumstances are very similar. I'm still going through the divorce process and have only one child aged 11. I've remained in the family home less than a mile from his school and she keeps him the majority of the week 4 miles away with her parents and sends/collects him to school with various relatives, thus denying me the right to parent my own son. She works as a teacher andby BBR1966 - UK Divorce Forum