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Does this look fair?

Posted by Oscar46016 
Does this look fair?
September 15, 2025 09:27AM
Ok so situation is - I'm 61 wife is 56, 2 kids both adults.
House is worth £450k o/s Mortgage £200k - so £256k equity.

I earn about £44k and I also have a £9k pension curtently paying out.
Wife does not work, nor has she done for a number of years, probably can't again due to health ( not serious but enough to make it not really viable ).
I have about £85k in a SIPP she has about £55k
We have about £50k in savings which should be split 50/50.
We also have one car - worth about £12k - she can have that.

My proposal - from the Take Home of about £3500 the mortgage gets paid and council tax - until the house is sold - any income after that is split 50/50 - should leave us about £1k each until house sale, then £1750 ( which should be enough for me ).

Once sold she can buy a house cica £250-£275k and be mortgage free.

I'm planning to rent a room until house is sold, then with income split 50/50 I should be able to buy a small property with a small mortgage.

State pensions will be allocated to the relevant persion, I'll probably get a Civil Service pension of about £200 a month which I'll keep as well..

Am I being too generous?
Re: Does this look fair?
October 03, 2025 05:29PM
It is not unreasonable if you are both happy with it but it might be a good idea to both attend mediation to talk it through
Also you should seek your own independent legal advice before you actually sign anything
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