Hi, I’ve been in a pension for about 32 years , I’ve been married for 14 years , I’ve been told by a solicitor tye 18 years would not be included as this is a significant amount of years I wasn’t with her and she said we would ask the pension fund to give us an estimate of the value for the first 18 years and exclude it from the pension value/assets is this correct ? Bear in mind I’m 50 and she is 43